I think I've encountered more vitriol on corporate software than corporate things (related to code). Much of the battle is often not about code, but about process, other parts of the organization, etc.
Or at least I should say a lot of OSS projects are corporate, so they feel the same way. The for-fun stuff can be, but it can also wear you down. There's a lot of hate among users of projects that you are directly exposed to, where a paying customer can often be a lot easier to talk to. It's weird.
It's ok and fun when you have a few users, but when you have lots, you find they can be really hard to scale -- so many different points of view, so many different conflicting needs, "managing" people you don't pay, trying to break up disagreements, many more points of compromise, etc.
Or at least I should say a lot of OSS projects are corporate, so they feel the same way. The for-fun stuff can be, but it can also wear you down. There's a lot of hate among users of projects that you are directly exposed to, where a paying customer can often be a lot easier to talk to. It's weird.
It's ok and fun when you have a few users, but when you have lots, you find they can be really hard to scale -- so many different points of view, so many different conflicting needs, "managing" people you don't pay, trying to break up disagreements, many more points of compromise, etc.