While this subject is full of interesting sub-topics to investigate for real-world use, Parallel Computing is a field much wider than just a DMM. Look at systems designed more than 10 years ago for better ideas about alternative computing models (all the good papers were written by the end of the 20th century). For example, if your "big data" is just computationally-intensive normal data, you might want to look into PVM/MPI or SSI. It's not as sexy, though, because you don't use it in JavaScript.
I'd love to see tools like MPI come back into mainstream. For instance, there's some work being done optimizing MPI in java for high performance computing but not nearly as much as what's being done for tools like Hadoop.
This is just what I wanted, something that explained me all this amazing world of distributed computing and networking.
If someone could suggest a good book, that'd be interesting too (I've been looking at Unix Network Programming and The TCP/IP Guide for starting with networks).
That depends on what level of book, and what you want to learn from it. On "how real distributed systems are built", there isn't a really good book available in my opinion. I liked The Datacenter as a Computer, but it's scope is fairly narrow and is more focused on global infrastructure issues than software design issues. On the math behind distributed systems, Nancy Lynch's book Distributed Algorithms (http://www.amazon.com/Distributed-Algorithms-Kaufmann-Manage...) is my favorite, but it's getting to be quite out-of-date.
Absent a book, there are a lot of great resources online. High Scalability(http://highscalability.com/) has a good amount of quality links to distributed systems content, and some editorial content of varying quality. In general, it's a good site to follow if you're interested in how distributed systems are being used in industry. I also like to follow Aphyr's blog(http://aphyr.com/), Daniel Abadi's blog(http://dbmsmusings.blogspot.com/), and Henry Robinson's blog(http://the-paper-trail.org/blog/) and Peter Bailis's blog(http://www.bailis.org/).
The Architecture of Open Source Applications books[1], while eclectic, seem pretty good from the chapters I've read. They have a few chapters about distributed systems--HDFS, Riak, and a chapter about "Scalable Web Architecture and Distributed Systems" (haven't read it).
I was skeptical to click this but it's piqued my interest. If it continues as cogently as it began, then the author has my congratulations: it's said that if you truly understand something, you can explain it eloquently to others.
If you're just getting started with this stuff, having a solid understanding of these principles is critical. I can't recommend these videos enough.