I recommend just looking at the way others have used Ruby via various projects on github -- and then review the chapters in the pickaxe book to understand exactly how the syntax works.
I think the new O'Reilly book co-written by Matz is probably a great choice too, though I haven't read it yet.
I think the new O'Reilly book co-written by Matz is probably a great choice too, though I haven't read it yet.