Family court is even worse. You can't even know what's illegal for your kid to do because the civil standards on things like 'neglect' are incredibly nebulous and left for agencies like CPS and family law judges to review, so to find out how they're actually interpreted you would need to see cases and how they played out. Those are ~all wrapped up in secret court hearings.

So basically you have no fucking idea what the law actually is, how it's being enforced, what will happen to you if you don't follow their interpretation, and god forbid you wind up there they can use a lot of methods to keep you from talking about it.