Of the three EVs, all different manufacturers, that we've owned in the last decade, zero have coasting as an easy option. You have to either switch off OPD entirely, or else literally shift the car into neutral.
And yes, you are right, if you do that you can coast and then your tire wear will be no worse than an ICE vehicle.
Yeah, you're not shifting into neutral on your ICE car to coast from 57 to 55 either, you're just releasing the accelerator. You've still got the motor engaged, so you're doing mild engine braking on the ICE even if it's vernacularly called coasting.
And yes, you are right, if you do that you can coast and then your tire wear will be no worse than an ICE vehicle.
Most EV drivers don't do those things.