Ok, but that's not what social workers etc. do. They don't tell kids how they should be reacting to an adverse event. They observe how a kid is already acting in response, to determine if something was traumatic, and then if therapy will help.
They're not telling kids to be terrified of something that the kid has already dealt with.
Uh, maybe we've met different social workers? Because I've absolutely seen that happen before.
Which, fair that you can easily catch yourself in a 'no true social worker' scenario. But it definitely happens. Especially with how little training we dedicate to camp counselors and such.
They're not telling kids to be terrified of something that the kid has already dealt with.