You are right. I am projecting, but there is a reason why I am. I really don't want anyone to miss out on the opportunity, it's fricking hard but its the most worthwhile thing most people can ever do. We've been led to believe that having kids takes away from you, that's BS. Anyway I seem to have touched a nerve, I sense some cognitive dissonance within you. On a primal level you know it makes sense, on a thinking level you are conflicting. Follow your natural instinct it's been engineered by nature to ensure our survival.