So the logic is: you wouldn't understand because you're not a parent, but if you...

sofal on May 30, 2012 | parent | context | favorite | on: Hunting Down My Son's Killer

So the logic is: you wouldn't understand because you're not a parent, but if you are a parent then you're not a good one (i.e "you haven't been able to take the same things I have from this experience").