In terms of Datadog - the per host pricing on infrastructure in a k8/microservices world is perhaps the most egregious of pricing models across all datadog services. Triply true if you use spot instances for short lived workloads.
For folks running k8 at any sort of scale, I generally recommend aggregating metrics BEFORE sending them to datadog, either on a per deployment or per cluster level. Individual host metrics tend to also matter less once you have a large fleet.
You can use opensource tools like veneur (https://github.com/stripe/veneur) to do this. And if you don't want to set this up yourself, third party services like Nimbus (https://nimbus.dev/) can do this for you automatically (note that this is currently a preview feature). Disclaimer also that I'm the founder of Nimbus (we help companies cut datadog costs by over 60%) and have a dog in this fight.
For folks running k8 at any sort of scale, I generally recommend aggregating metrics BEFORE sending them to datadog, either on a per deployment or per cluster level. Individual host metrics tend to also matter less once you have a large fleet.
You can use opensource tools like veneur (https://github.com/stripe/veneur) to do this. And if you don't want to set this up yourself, third party services like Nimbus (https://nimbus.dev/) can do this for you automatically (note that this is currently a preview feature). Disclaimer also that I'm the founder of Nimbus (we help companies cut datadog costs by over 60%) and have a dog in this fight.