I'm sure I'm mistaken, but I believe the conversion to a graph loses exactly the information I'm trying to use: a vertex with three edges, where each of those vertices are also all interconnected, can have a fourth edge to a fifth vertex which also has an edge to each of the others; on the map this is not possible. Right?
From my napkin sketch to satisfy myself, I think you can show the same thing equivalently by saying 'and the edges are not allowed to cross' - but I don't know if that's something that exists in graph theory? (If so, it seems to me it should be used here? And if it is, well, finally we have a modicum of precision for what I'm trying to get at!)
If you have a map in which you want to colour the regions, you can convert to a graph by putting a capital city in each region, then putting a road between two capitals of countries that share a border. Colouring the capital cities vertices) so that any joined by roads (edges) get different colours is exactly the same problem.
The graph-colouring problem is more general now, but every planar graph is equivalent to a map and vice-versa ... there is a one-to-one correspondence between these problems.
Now we move to the NP-Completeness of the 3-colouring of general graphs. That shows that this sort of thing is hard for the reasons I gave in the grandparent post.
"But" I hear you say "That's for general graphs, and not for planar graphs!"
Yes, but there is a way to convert a graph-colouring problem on a non-planar graph into an equivalent graph-colouring problem on a planar graph, so we neither gain nor lose much by consider just planar graphs.
So 3-colouring planar graphs is NP-Complete.
Then you get into my comments about making bad choices and having to backtrack, and spooky action at a distance.
From my napkin sketch to satisfy myself, I think you can show the same thing equivalently by saying 'and the edges are not allowed to cross' - but I don't know if that's something that exists in graph theory? (If so, it seems to me it should be used here? And if it is, well, finally we have a modicum of precision for what I'm trying to get at!)
Edit: OK, sorry, that is a 'planar graph'.