> Is there a way to phrase statements that challenge others in a way that leads to conversation and not flags/greying out?
Of course there is! For example the way you have worded your question. It makes it clear what you diagre with and stimulates a conversation.
At the moment the greyed out comment simply says “why not?”. I would love to answer their question too, but it is not even clear what exactly it is about? And then further more are they disagreeing or are they requesting clarification on the root causes of some detail? If they are disagreeing on what grounds are they disagreeing?
Of course there is! For example the way you have worded your question. It makes it clear what you diagre with and stimulates a conversation.
At the moment the greyed out comment simply says “why not?”. I would love to answer their question too, but it is not even clear what exactly it is about? And then further more are they disagreeing or are they requesting clarification on the root causes of some detail? If they are disagreeing on what grounds are they disagreeing?