The key to limiting one's efforts is that the problems need to be temporary ones, and the 'assistant' should take on a supporting role, not a leading one.
Sounds like we agree, actually. At a certain point, one must leave others "to their fate" good or bad. In certain matters, we can only help. It's up to them to actually do the work, if they can or if they will.
In other words, it's not healthy to be committed to controlling that which one cannot control. Especially if it's another sentient being.
Sounds like we agree, actually. At a certain point, one must leave others "to their fate" good or bad. In certain matters, we can only help. It's up to them to actually do the work, if they can or if they will.
In other words, it's not healthy to be committed to controlling that which one cannot control. Especially if it's another sentient being.