Were you redeeming at Tether, or were you redeeming at Bitfinex and they were selling the Tether on the open market to someone else and sending you the proceeds?
I think what the OP is saying is that there is not a reliable account of someone going to Tether with 100k USDT and having Tether give them $100k USD.
Find me one person that has ever done this. Just one.
I will wait.