A bit of alcohol makes you feel good, there's no two ways about it. And, for many, it soothes their anxieties - or just loosens them up.

I can have fun without alcohol, no problem. But I can't deny that I like the taste of alcoholic drinks / beverages, and I enjoy the effect.

Same with sugar - I can enjoy a life without candy, but once in a while, I enjoy eating candy.

It's all about moderation.