Q - given the need to take a boring, possibly bad/negative/stressful job that is needed to pay the bills and support the family, is it within one's power to choose between feeling that this is (1) a resentful, negative, bad situation, or (2) a nonideal, but necessary siutation, and to take satisfaction and pride in the fact that you're supporting your family? IDK.
(2) happens by leaving your work at work and doing what you enjoy at home. "Work-life balance", etc.
I don't need Jeff fucking Besos to tell me that there is something wrong with me if I cannot be happy making other people richer at the expense of my own time.